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Make an effort to acknowledge and appreciate him for who he is.

This guy will create grandiose illusions of who you are, will put you on a pedestal, will make you feel like the most spectacular being to ever walk to the face of the earth (because at first, he may very well feel this way).

Obviously no one can live up to such enormous expectations and you will eventually show yourself to not be the goddess he envisioned and he will vanish from your life without a trace…. You might think I’m exaggerating, but any girl who has dated this kind of guy will know what I’m talking about.

And don’t place extra demands on him and get on his case for not being as available to you.

The last thing he needs or wants is added stress in his life and if you become a stressor rather than a source of stress-relief, he’ll start to pull away.

If you’re already dating him: Don’t try to pump him up or find a job for him or offer insights into what you think he should do with his life.

This will only make him feel like a pathetic loser.

It was great getting to know you though.” Sticking around and showing him how great you are will get you nowhere.

Actually, it’ll get you trapped in relationship no-mans land where you’re in a relationship, but not really.

A guy who feels lost and directionless will be too wrapped up in himself to be a loving, caring partner who can be in tune to your needs.

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